Five Essential Bits of Advice to Remember When Choosing a Spouse

1. Don’t marry potential. What you see is what you’re getting. Don’t assume ot hope someone will change. Ask yourself- if he or she…

Should Married Couples Text Opposite Sex Friends?

At a recent marriage preparation retreat my husband and I spoke at, a series of marriage-related scenarios were shared that participants discussed and shared…

Should I Marry Someone I’m Not Attracted To?

Short answer, no. God gave us the gift of sexual attraction to enrich and strengthen our marriages. Though attraction isn’t the MOST important thing,…

Thoughts on the Recent Dowry-related and Domestic Violence in Indian News

Photo from Unsplash Those of us who follow Indian news must be aware of a spate of incidents in which women are attacked or…

What I’ve Learned in Five Years of Marriage

My husband and I celebrated our fifth wedding anniversary recently. Five years in the school of love has merited some sharing on what I’ve…

Five Prejudices You May Not Realize You Have

Most of us absorb the attitudes and prejudices we have grown up around.  Until we reach a place of self-reflection, we may continue to…

What’s Wrong With Traditional Indian Matchmaking Services

Image by freepic.diller on Freepik A friend recently sent me a ‘Catholic’ matrimonial form that included spaces to fill in caste, salary, figure, weight…

What’s the Perfect Number of Children in a Catholic Family?

Spoiler: there is no perfect or ideal number. Catholic marriage tip: Don’t idolize or idealize a certain number of kids. Whether it’s a typical…

How To Prepare to Be a Godly Spouse

1. Take your prayer life and sacramental life seriously now Set aside a daily time to pray, journal, read God’s word and seek God’s…